Stop When You Are Done
Some lessons you learn over time.
“I’ve already done a lot” sat on my desk all year as a reminder not to push past completion just because I could.
The lesson I’m taking into 2026:
Stop when you’re done.
On Being a Planter
I have learned that my greatest strength is not chasing outcomes. It is planting seeds. I build structure, create possibility, and leave room for others to grow in their own timing. This week’s Unscripted dives into what it means to be a planter and why impact often shows up long after the work is done.
Through Their Eyes
What’s better than seeing Beyoncé live?
Watching my daughters watch her live.
In the latest Unscripted, I share a reflection on presence, parenting, and what happens when you stop watching for the performance and start witnessing the power.
Core memories were made—and I’m still processing it all.
Let Your Yes be Yes
I used to overthink every decision. Especially the ones that involved saying no.
But clarity—about what I do, who I serve, and where my energy is most needed—has made my yeses easier and my nos even easier (Shoutout to my friend Cherice, who years ago talked about this idea of making your yes mean yes and your no mean no.)
In the latest issue of Unscripted, I reflect on a moment that reminded me why saying no quickly, without guilt, is a gift I’ve worked hard to earn.
If you’re in a season of redefining your boundaries, I think this one will resonate.
Why Unscripted
What happens when you stop performing success and start telling the truth?
I’ve launched a space to explore just that: money, time, identity, and the messy business of living life on your own terms.
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